HOW TO START WITH ANAL PLAY
Anal play includes stroking and massaging, oral stimulation and penetration of the anus. Your butthole is full of nerve endings, making it highly sensitive.
Penis-owners have a prostate gland located inside their bum that can provide a lot of pleasure when stimulated. To find the prostate gland; slide your finger in and press it towards the belly. The prostate gland feels soft and spongy.
Vulva-owners are even luckier. Since the wishbone-shaped clitoris extends all the way down to the anus, vulva-owners can orgasm during butt play.
PREPARATION IS KEY
Make sure you’re well-educated about anal sex.
Go to the bathroom and take a shower at least one hour before play to avoid a messy situation (unless messy situations are like, ‘your thing’).
While not mandatory, anal douching might provide more insurance. Educate yourself on how-to before trying this for the first time.
LUBE IS YOUR FRIEND
The anus doesn’t self-lubricate as the vagina does . Use the amount of lube you think you’ll need and then add some more.
A silicone lubricant, such as überlube, is very slippery and doesn’t need to be reapplied as often as a waterbased lubricant.
However, don’t use silicone lube on silicone toys. When using silicone toys, opt for a waterbased lube instead.
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WARM-UP EVERY SINGLE TIME
Congrats if you ended up having a XXL buttplug up your bum the last time. Unfortunately this doesn’t mean you can start like this the next time.
Always take your time to warm-up. Don’t go from zero to penis/dildo straight away.
The best way to start is by massaging the outer tissue or by oral stimulation. Next, use the tiniest butt plug you can find or a finger. Work your way up from there as you please.
Butt plugs come in different kinds of materials. For newbies it might be more comfortable to stick to silicone as it is soft, squishy, flexible and adapts to your body temperature.
If you would like to insert a toy to keep it there, giving you a feeling of fullness, butt plugs or anal beads are the way to go. Use a dildo if you’re more into the sensation of back-and-forth movement.
Wash your toys before and after use.